tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794353662419036774.post1138300614126313924..comments2023-09-16T00:49:35.065-07:00Comments on Belina Blue Eyes: More Happiness? Why Yes, I'll Take SomeAbbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18130810786403427114noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794353662419036774.post-63319502044827279342010-09-26T14:02:51.450-07:002010-09-26T14:02:51.450-07:00I think having dear friends to listen to and be li...I think having dear friends to listen to and be listened by can help keep everything in perspective and help us to realize the "big picture," To love life and be reminded of all the tremendous blessings we all have. Sharing it over some great food might help :).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794353662419036774.post-41666704526193468392010-09-24T16:25:44.553-07:002010-09-24T16:25:44.553-07:00I enjoyed your disclaimer.I enjoyed your disclaimer.Sallyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03010256007035986664noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794353662419036774.post-7076328463245644972010-09-24T15:37:48.212-07:002010-09-24T15:37:48.212-07:00One of my favorite quotes is "Happiness is no...One of my favorite quotes is "Happiness is not a destination, but a decision." I totally agree with that but I certainly don't live by it very often. I agree with Jocelyn that it takes a strong person to let yourself be happy. <br />The best thing for me is to constantly list all of the things I am grateful for. In my head, during prayers, and occasionally in a journal. When I do this I remember how many blessings I have and how happiness is based on gratitude for these blessings. <br />Great post Abby! THank you!Lesliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04859901389587950440noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794353662419036774.post-75156272517460779762010-09-24T13:39:58.211-07:002010-09-24T13:39:58.211-07:00if i'm not happy when i should be, it's us...if i'm not happy when i should be, it's usually because of something i'm focusing on. namely, the smaller bits instead of the big picture. obsessing over little details instead of what's really important. <br /><br />i also think our culture can sometimes push us towards wanting perfection, and so even when things are awesome we're still thinking about the things we can improve. which is a good thing, but only in healthy doses. like i should be happy that i'm back in my pre-pregnancy size, instead of beating myself up over this bit here, and that bit there. <br /><br />i think that since we ARE meant to be happy, it has to be a little hard to get there. otherwise, how would we appreciate it?Kimbahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14792302247359156577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794353662419036774.post-25677676394917030022010-09-24T12:58:59.037-07:002010-09-24T12:58:59.037-07:00I've noticed it takes much more energy to not ...I've noticed it takes much more energy to not be happy rather than to be happy, so wouldn't that mean that we ARE meant to be happy? I think so!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06513646884462152438noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794353662419036774.post-52110881198785098912010-09-23T20:07:03.401-07:002010-09-23T20:07:03.401-07:00You know what Abby...yes, you're right. My hea...You know what Abby...yes, you're right. My heart is constantly begging for happiness. Whose isn't? And sometimes I won't let it be happy. WHY is that... because I am too lazy or too weak. I personally think it takes a strong person to LET yourself be happy. I also believe there is work involved. For me that is how I am able to let my heart rejoice on occasion. If I just hope for happiness it usually doesn't come. ANd when I MAKE an effort, that's when I get it! <br /><br />I love your posts.Jocelyn Pehrsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15520255693143263631noreply@blogger.com